Speaking + Consulting

BRUCE FEILER is an in-demand speaker on a variety of topics—mastering life transitions, the power of gathering, the secrets of happy families, and building intergenerational harmony through intentional inheritance. 

Drawing on his seven New York Times bestsellers, including LIFE IS IN THE TRANSITIONS, THE SECRETS OF HAPPY FAMILIES, and COUNCIL OF DADS, Bruce has given three TED Talks that have been viewed more than five million times and teaches the TED Course HOW TO MASTER LIFE TRANSITIONS. His work on transitions has created a global movement exploring how we can navigate life’s growing number of changes with purpose and skill. His latest book,  A TIME TO GATHER: How Ritual Created the World—and How It Can Save Us, extends that movement to focus how communities, families, and organizations kinds can push back against loneliness and digital saturation to create new ways to connect and build belonging together.

Bruce tailors all his appearances to meet the needs of clients. Below are suggested topics. To arrange a speaking event, workshop, or consulting opportunity, please contact Irene Westfall (contact@brucefeiler.com) or email Bruce.

Here are some of the many places where Bruce has appeared:



Popular Speaking Topics

Life Transitions

MASTERING LIFE TRANSITIONS: Finding Meaning and Purpose in Uncertain Times

Now a popular TED Talk with 2 million views!

Drawing on the groundbreaking revelations in Life Is in the Transitions, Bruce Feiler presents a timely new roadmap for how to transform and reinvent ourselves in times of transition to live with more meaning, purpose, and joy. Feiler has spent seven years collecting and analyzing life stories from hundreds of Americans who underwent enormous life changes. Mining this rich wellspring of data and stories, Feiler explores the greatest emotions we struggle in times of change, the biggest roadblocks to reinventions, the habits we most need to shed, the secrets to being creative in moments of uncertainty.

With extraordinary insight and urgency, Feiler shares a groundbreaking toolkit for flourishing in periods of upheaval and the first new model for navigating life transitions in half a century.

A TIME TO GATHER: Harnessing the Power of Connection to Create Stronger Communities

Drawing on his global journey across six continents, hundreds of interviews, and groundbreaking research from his book A Time to Gather, Bruce Feiler reveals how society is pushing back on the collapse of human connection.

At a time when commentators complain that our civilization is coming apart, Feiler offers a hopeful antidote— a research-based report on the renaissance of new gatherings. Fed up with loneliness, polarization, and digital saturation, everyday people, from boomers to Gen Z, are inventing fresh ways to connect around life, love, health, and family—and forging thriving communities in the process.

With his trademark blend of data, storytelling, and immersive field reporting, Feiler offers a practical framework for how organizations, leaders, and communities can intentionally design gatherings that restore belonging, foster trust, and help people navigate uncertain times together.

The Secrets of Happy Families

THE SECRETS OF HAPPY FAMILIES: How High-Functioning Families Adapt, Talk, Play, and Thrive

As seen on GMA, TODAY, CNN, FOX, MSNBC, and his popular TED Talk, Bruce Feiler delivers a lively, practical talk designed to help busy families contend with the issues they struggle with most: discipline, dinner, difficult conversations, out-of-control mornings, challenging bedtimes, technology showdowns, and sibling rivalry.

Combining up-to-the minute research, personal experience, and proven know-how from more than fifteen years of research, two bestselling books, and 100 New York Times columns, Feiler offers and easy-to-implement blueprint of what high-functioning families have in common and helps audience members identify the specific takeaways that can make their family—and everyone in their family—happier.

WHAT WE LEAVE BEHIND: Building Stronger Intergenerational Families Through Intentional Inheritance

A sneak peak at Bruce Feiler’s s new book that offers a bold new approach to intergenerational relations!

Drawing on a decade of New York Times columns, three New York Times bestsellers, and proprietary research for a new book on what he calls “intentional inheritance, Feiler delivers a lively, practical talk designed to help high-net-worth families contend with the issues they struggle with most: building intergenerational harmony. Feiler introduces

As the co-leader of a multigenerational family business, Feiler weaves his personal experience with proprietary data to introduce his “hierarchy of inheritance,” a pyramid of priorities that all families face. He then offers practical tips to help members of different generations communicate more effectively, cooperate more deeply, and construct a workable plan to help everyone achieve the meaning they want.

Practical, personal, and profound, this workshop or talk has already transformed families in multiple countries and can have immediate impact on restoring the true potential of inheritance: a means to make the dreams of everyone in the family come true.

 

to explore issues specific to high-net-worth families, including intergenerational wealth transfer; adult sibling rivalry; tensions over trusts, estates, and prenups; healthy conflict resolution; and meaningful family reunions.

Leadership

THE SEARCH: How to Find Work You Love

Fewer people are searching merely for work these days. More people are searching for work with meaning. Drawing on insights from his most-recent books, THE SEARCH: Finding Meaningful Work in a Post-Career World and LIFE IS IN THE TRANSITIONS: Mastering Change at Any Age, as well as 20 years of writing about modern life in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Harvard Business Review, and elsewhere, Bruce Feiler lays out a road map for finding work that brings you the happiness you crave, the meaning you deserve, and the success you seek. As the workforce becomes younger, more female, and more diverse, the world of work is changing fast, but the world of career placement is not keeping up. In a talk filled with inspiring stories, proprietary data, and practical takeaways, Feiler debunks the three lies of work (“You have a career,” “You have a path,” “You have a job”) and explore the one truth (“Only you can write your own story of success”). He then gives participants a toolkit for how to perform a “meaning audit” when they’re going through a work change that allows them to stop chasing someone else’s dream and start chasing their own.

LEADING WITH PURPOSE: How Leaders Can Create a Meaning Agenda that Serves a More Purpose-Focused Workforce

Drawing on insights from his most-recent book, THE SEARCH, his viral WSJ essay, “The New Rules of Success in a Post-Career World,” and his TED White Paper “The Meaning Moment: How a New Generation of Workers Is Changing the American Workplace,” Bruce Feiler discusses how leaders can adapt to the rapidly changing attitudes toward work and success a new generation of workers–younger, more female, and more diverse. Gone are the days when managers can simply issue top-down edicts and ignore the input of their workers. But what do workers want? Feiler’s talk first explores the changing values of today’s workforce, focused specifically on his proprietary data on the post-pandemic rise of job fluidity, work from anywhere, along with the importance of balance, flexibility, and well being. He then gives leaders a proven, three-pronged approach to create a more purpose-driven workplace: 1) How to conduct a “meaning audit” to identify your organizations strengths and weaknesses; 2) How to develop a “meaning agenda,” that introduces science-backed solutions; and 3) How to “communicate with meaning,” using language from the top of the organization to the bottom that is people-focused and inclusive, while also being inspiring and helpful to the bottom line.  This timely, practical presentation offers a new framework for work in a post-Covid, post-career world and road map for leaders and workers to work together to create a more welcoming, more balanced, and ultimately more successful work culture.

The Power of Community

The Power of Community: How to Survive and Thrive in Difficult Times

The Council of Dads: The worldwide phenomenon that went from a life-threatening illness to a bestselling book to an NBC primetime drama series. Faced with one of life’s greatest challenges, Bruce Feiler reached out to six men who helped shape him and asked each one for a piece of advice for his young daughters: how to live, how to travel, how to question, how to dream. In this funny, moving presentation, Feiler relates the lessons he learned about the power of friendship, the importance of relying on our community whatever challenges we face, and how to celebrate what’s most precious in our lives.

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